Musings of a Shanghai Tai-Tai.

I'm Earthling!

2008-02-04T21:11:00.002+08:00

With my kids practically growing up overseas, they seem to have lost their sense of roots. When asked by an uncle what nationality they are, I overheard my 7-year-old son replied, "I'm an earthling."

Back in Shanghai (once again)

2007-08-29T12:10:00.000+08:00

Weather: Rainy
Mood: Relax

My one month vacation in Singapore passed like lightning. It was really nice that I got to meet up with my family and friends. And for those whom I didn't get to meet, at least I took the time to catch up with them via phone. Although the world is getting smaller (with the invention of internet), the relationship ties between people seem to be getting thinner.

For the return trip, my mother and my mother-in-law decide to come back to Shanghai with us to stay for a month. Due to the old-age of my mother-in-law, we haven't been venturing out much. Most of the time, I keep them "entertained" at home. :P

As always, my hubby was back to his busy working schedule. While my gal has already returned to school yesterday, my boy is still waiting for his school re-open. My gal has joined a new class, but fortunately, she has 2 old friends with her, and she is enjoying school very much. My boy will be going to Shanghai High for his elementary education. I hope he will also come to enjoy his new school.

Just before I end this post, I thought I should introduce you to a new happening place. Just prior to my departure from Singapore, my hubby and I went to check out St James Power Station. I had a wonderful time and I absolutely love the crowd, since they were relax and enjoying themselves. There are a few dance halls and I like especially Dragonfly. My hubby and I were lucky that although we arrived at 10.45pm on a Thursday, we still managed to get a table and we were delighted by a performance by the film crew of 881 (see pix below).
Anyway, Dragonfly tends to be very popular, so if you squeeze yourself past the crowd, the next best option is head for Movida. ;)

Last but not least, now that I'm back in Shanghai, I am having problem accessing this site again. Currently, I am writing via Blogger, but I have difficulty accessing Musings of a Shanghai Tai-Tai. Therefore I won't be blogging as much as I like since I couldn't see what I wrote. But still do check in once in a while since I would try my best to keep periodic update on my stay in Shanghai.

Quote from Boy, "I don't have money, but Daddy got money mah."
........ that's my boy's excuse when he wanted to buy something..... ~sigh~

Having A Good Vacation in Singapore.

2007-08-14T22:43:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Great

It's been 3 weeks since I'm back in Singapore, so far I'm enjoying my stay. It's always nice to be surrounded by close family, warm friends and familiar environment. And most important of all, I got to blog again...... now that I can access this site from Singapore. Actually I would have posted earlier if not because I was dampened by hateful comments appearing in my earlier 2 posts. ~shrugs~

Anyway, I have good news to share, so that brought me back why I have to add a new post. Well, one of the purposes for my trip in Singapore is to enrol my son in Primary school since he's of age to admit into one in 2008. And after the stressful process of balloting, my son was selected into one of the 13 vacancies in the school of choice. Actually, I don't know why the selected school is so popular that balloting is required.... I only know that I chose it because it is the nearest to my house. Anyway, I'm glad I need not subject ourselves into selecting another school. ~sigh of relief~

Now that I've settled the school registration for my son, the family can really enjoy a relaxing holiday. So... will be spending 3 days in Bintan, starting the day after tomorrow.

Therefore, look forward to another happy post by me next week. ;)

Until then... CHEERS! :D

Nasty China Workers

2007-06-11T11:13:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy
Mood: Pissed!!

It was a beautiful Sunday when my family (hubby, 2 kids and me) returned home after a tiring morning out, to realize that there was a major road repair in our residential compound. We were a little taken by surprised because as residents of the compound, we were not informed that there would be on-going construction work on Sunday.) And because of this "illegal" construction work (since there is a law in Shanghai that construction work should not be carried out during non-official hours), my hubby got into a dispute with the construction workers...........

When my husband tried to drive us home using one of the entrance leading to our apartment block, we were told by workers to use another road as there was on-going road repair work. So, my hubby turned the car around and drove towards the alternative entrance, only to discover that it was blocked by frilly temporary blockade made by chairs and ropes. Since at this side of the entrance, the road work seemed to have completed, and thinking that the construction workers must have forgotten to remove the temporary blockade, we proceeded to drive the car forward towards our apartment block.

Half way from arriving our apartment block, 2 construction workers rushed towards our car and stopped us from proceeding forward. My hubby wind down the window to explain that we were trying to drive home but the other road entrance was blocked, so we had to use this alternative road. The workers accused us of bypassing their blockade and commanded us to turn back. When my husband asked for alternative way to drive home, he retorted that, “Well, I don’t care, we are working and you cannot come in, go find your own way.” And told us to get lost and come back at night when the road work has been done. When we reasoned with them, they even scolded us in rude words like, "What big deal we own an apartment", "So what we drive"…….
My husband, seeing that the kids were upset, was very annoyed with the workers rude attitude and decided to drive forward without having further meaningless negotiation with them. And guess what? One of the workers used himself to block the car and punched on our car with his fists when my husband attempted to drive forward (in snail speed). And he accused my husband for attempting to knock him down with our car. My kids started crying and I was scared too. My husband got so furious that he got out from the car to confront the unreasonable worker. But before my husband could say a word, both workers started pushing my husband. Fearing for my husband, I got down the car and shouted for help, "有人打人啊!"

Before long, we were surrounded by a whole bunch of construction workers. At this moment, a security guard arrived, but the young security guard made no attempt to interfere, he only advised me to call the police. So I did. And after that, I warned the rowdy workers that I would take their picture to report to the police for wanting to beat up my hubby. One of the workers challenged me to take his picture. But when I tried to take picture with my Nokia N73, all of them turned to their backs (left picture was taken when the police arrived), and another worker knocked my hand and sent my Nokia N73 flying into the air and landed hard on the floor. I was shocked by this sudden attack and started crying. My hubby got so mad that he wanted to beat up the guy who bullied me, but a few construction workers ganged up together to push my hubby around. The kids were terrified then, and they cried even louder. I was alarmed to see my hubby being surrounded, and I picked up the phone to call the police again, crying hysterically in the phone for help.

The stiff situation kept up for a few minutes before the police finally arrived. My husband spoke to me in English to let him handle the matter, so I entered the car to try to calm my crying children.

After a couple of minutes, my husband returned to the car and told me that he decided not to report the construction workers since they have backed off after the police arrived. And a middle-age man approached us, claming he was from the management office, and said he would direct us to the underground car park (which was not in operation yet) that could lead us to our apartment block.

While the management office guy led us to the car park, my husband reprimanded him for keeping silent the whole time while the construction workers terrorized us. He simply excused himself by saying he had no power over those workers since they were brought in by the developer to work on the road. He even claimed he did not know that the road construction was supposed to be happening that day.

Anyway, after we reached home, my husband pacify me by explaining he did not report the construction workers because they were a fierce ruthless bunch, and he did not want to risk revenge by them. And these people were from the poor provinces and they could harm us easily without due consideration. Afterall, he added that we were not in a desirable circumstance since the estate has such weak management and poor security.

Till now, I am still petrified by the entire occurrence yesterday. However, after the incidence, it suddenly dwell on me why some of my foreign counterparts treat the locals like shit.... because majority of the local Chinese are really like shit. They are selfish, inconsiderate, money-greedy proud undeserving humans that shame the existence of human kind.

I rest my case.

Adding on to my frustration, my blog is being blocked by the Chinese ISP again. It only goes further to prove that China is a shitty place. (Not to confuse you, I added this post using work-around method, meaning... I can add, but I won't be able to access and read it since my blog is blocked! )

Life Goes On

2007-06-05T13:21:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Serene

Recently, I received a message sent by ME… yes… sent by ME. I generated this message using FutureMe.org . And the message written by me a year ago simply carried 2 words, “I survived.”

If you go back to my earlier posts, you might have noticed my discontentment and dissatisfaction with life in Shanghai, basically stemmed from interaction with the crude cultures and customs of the locals. However, after more than a year, I am kind of accustomed with certain local habits and I even learn to tackle some of them. For instance, I am more inquisitive when I buy things, I rather spend a little more to buy from reliable source, I avoid visiting crowded places that I might get pushed about, I procrastinate when someone cut my queue, and I am numb to inconsiderate ones who spit right in front of me. ~shrugs~

Besides, having my social circle expanded help too, since my newly acquired friends could help to free my mind from occasional restlessness with the gatherings they arranged.

Anyway, I am happy that I am getting more accustomed to life away from home. Perhaps one day, if I am comfortable enough, I might even treat this country as my home. :P

Quote from Boy, "Daddy not home tonight?"

..... whenever my hubby is not home, my boy will assumed he has flown off somewhere.

Am I A Nerd?

2007-05-30T14:28:00.001+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Inquisite

I love reading since I was young and this interest hasn’t dithered even when I'm an adult. I enjoy reading fictional novels, but when time gets busy, I'll fall back on magazines. ~shrugs~

Since moving to Shanghai, I’ve yet read too many novels. Mainly because English novels are hard to come by (especially since I am living in Pudong where shopping arcades are scarce), and if they are for available, they come with expensive tags. :(

Recently, while visiting an antique furniture shop , I bought a couple of books in its 2nd hand book corner. The books are on sale for 10RMB each, and the money collected, according to Marybelle, will be contributed to charity.

Anyway, the point is..... I wasn't aware I actually miss reading so much. Only 3 days, I had finished reading "The Doomsday Conspiracy" by Sidney Sheldon. If not for the regular chores I need to attend to, I probably could have finished reading the book in a day. Of course, it helps that “A Sudden Change of Heart" by Barbara Taylor Bradford. I'm trying to read it slow, but in just an evening, I have already completed half of it. :P

I'll probably put a stop to my reading after I'm done with "A Sudden Change of Heart". It's just too much a threat…. whenever I start to read, I just drift into my fictional world and it's difficult to pull myself out.

Quote from my gal, ".................." ~kept shaking her head~
........ I started my little princess on her piano lesson yesterday but she cried and refused to learn from the teacher. ~sigh~

Reaching Out

2007-05-29T16:48:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Relax

I was told that the group of Singaporeans ladies I mentioned in my last post, formed the Shanghai Expatriate Mum's Club. They are constantly "recruiting" new members and trying to help them get settled in Shanghai. So, if you are new in Shanghai and needed friends, do drop me an email so I might refer you to them.

Yesterday, I attended a farewell lunch organized by Shanghai Expatriate Mum's Club when the ex-coordinator, Helen, who will be leaving to return to Singapore in July, gave a farewell speech. Having been in China for 8 years, and having been part of the group, she could not help sobbing towards the end of her speech, since she misses the group which contains all her friends.

I can share Helen’s sentiments. When we relocate to another country, it means leaving our family and friends and past life behind to start afresh. At our age, it is not easy to make friends. However, when we start afresh in a new country, we find friends who shared similar experience, since we start off from the same platform...... being "alien" here. Thus the newfound friendship becomes very precious to us.

Having said that, friendship does not come knocking on your door. If you need a friend, you might have to reach out with a little effort. He or she could be just an email, a call or a sms away. ;)

Related Posts:
A Friendly Bunch
Treasure Friendship

Quote from Son, "Why is it you can watch TV and I can't?"

....... although I encourage my son to be inquisite, but this type of question is getting out of hand. ~shake head~

A Friendly Bunch

2007-05-24T18:42:00.000+08:00

Weather: Little Drizzle
Mood: Uplifting

As time passes, besides getting to know Shanghai better, I am also getting to know more people. For instance today, I just went out for lunch with a group of Tai-Tais. Thanks to Lina, the mother of my daughter's classmates, who always made it a point to introduce me to new friends, that is how I got to know these friendly ladies, who were introduced as Singaporeans from Puxi (since Lina and I stay in Pudong).

Although it is the first time I met these ladies, they were very warm, and had been enthusiastic in engaging me in their activities. All I can say is that they really know how to make one feels welcomed.

For a newbie (in joining social group activities), it has been tough to engage in a social group that I can feel comfortable in, since the group would usually be made of "old birds" who are "clicky". Therefore, I am quite happy to meet these ladies, who are eager to make new comer feels welcomed. Since they are so nice, I would probably be meeting up with them more in the future.

Quote from Gal, "I want to do homework."

...... my little angel is a very self-motivating one in terms of learning, wish my son can be the same.

Antique Furniture

2007-05-18T15:22:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy
Mood: Relax

A couple of days ago, I joined the mums in my gal’s school to attend a visit to an Antique Furniture shop in Puxi Cabobao Lu. The visit was coupled with a talk by the shop owner, Marybelle. She started by telling that whatever she had in her shop cannot be really considered as antiques, since they are mostly 50 to 60 years old. However, they are beautiful olden furniture which is more affordable. Then Marybelle introduced us what these furniture are made of, and how they can be maintained. Overall, it was an enlightening talk, especially when Marybelle touched on the different types of materials used for making the Chinese furniture; 硬木 (aka hardwood) and 软木 (aka softwood).

At the time of our visit, Marybelle claimed she didn’t have any hardwood furniture in the shop since these are collectible items well sought after by. Even furniture made of红木 (aka red wood), the hardest of the soft wood, would be snapped up by long-time customers if she managed to get hold of one.

Personally, I wouldn’t invest in any olden furniture for the fact that I’m a superstitious lady. I wouldn’t want to risk using something that was being used by the dead. Take for instance a bed, or a mirror, who can guarantee that it is spirit-free? ~shivers~

However, I’m all for restoring old furniture for further usage. It does help the earth by reducing waste. Am I contradictive? Well… that’s me. :P

Quote from Gal, "I like Mei Mei room, I like Mummy room, I like....."

.... seems our dear girl is falling in love with our new apartment. :)

New Estate "Glitches"

2007-05-15T20:36:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Keeping My Fingers Crossed

I like the housing estate we moved into. It is conveniently located with wet market, supermarket, convenience store, food outlets and surrounded with generous greeneries. And in the compound, one can find reputable schools (from kindergartens to universities) and look forward to an MRT station in the near future.

I think I will enjoy my stay in our new apartment, except currently, we still have to tolerate some inconveniences due to the fact that our estate is brand new:

1. Renovation noises everyday from 8am to 6pm. And sometimes, it is extended to night time and weekend due to inconsiderate contractors / neighbors.

2. Renovation garbage disposed in common areas of the estates by thoughtless ones.

3. Lifts being stalled by selfish movers. (God help us especially those of us who stay on high-floor.)

4. Dusts, dusts, and more dusts.

I am crossing my fingers that my neighbors will finish their renovation and move in soon. Hopefully, the inconvenience we face need only last for 2 or 3 more months. ~ crossing my fingers ~

Quote from Boy, "Where is Mei Mei?"
Quote from Gal, "Goa Goa leh?"
..... seems like the siblings are getting closer. :D

Renovation Fuss

2007-05-03T19:00:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Exhuasted

I wonder if there’s anyone who hasn’t encountered a problem after he/she shifts into a newly renovated house. For us, the last couple of days have been hassles….

First, we discovered that the build-in closet in one of the rooms is problematic. We couldn’t close the closet door at all after hanging our winter clothing because it is being built too shallow. I was pretty mad about this fault because I have not once but many times emphasized to the contractor that I need lots of storage space, so I took few times to go through the closets design blueprints with him to ensure the closets are built to my expectations. Argh…… :(

Then, as we started to use our power supply, we found that most of the power sockets are loose when we plugged on our appliances. After dismantling one of the power supply sockets, we found that the sockets installed were of inferior quality. My husband was very angry that our contractor actually used such product that could put our life at risk. My husband made the contactor change all the power supply sockets after giving him a grave warning.

The above encounters are just 2 major problems we hit; there are some other minor ones that I would find it too bothersome to share with you.

The renovation contactor is someone introduced via a friend, and he has seemed pretty reliable through our interaction with him. All I can say is that.... we can never be too trusting in China.

PS: To the one who has written to me to ask for the contractor’s contact, through this post, I hope you understand why I hasn’t replied you. ~sigh~

PSx2: BTW, the broadband in my new house is yet to be installed. I’ll be back more regularly once I have my access to internet again.

We are Proud Property Owner in China :)

2007-04-22T09:01:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy
Mood: Excited

Sorry to leave you in the dark for so long. As I’ve been complained, the BLOGSPOT site is often blocked by the China ISP. And being busy in my personal matters, by the time I discovered it is unblocked…. time flies. Hope you haven’t given up reading my blog. :P

Actually, I would still be quite irregular in my updates since I’m busy with house moving matters. We bought an apartment in Shanghai, and the renovation is more or less done. Thus, we are planning to shift into our new apartment by 28-Apr.

Now that we own an apartment in China, we find that being a property owner is quite beneficial. As long as one can produce the 房产证 (aka Housing Ownership Certificate), one can enjoy local public services with ease. For instance, we can apply for our son to enter a local school since he is of age to receive primary education and we applied our phone line without placing a 600RMB deposit. :D

Interesting Info:

In China, even 房产证 can be faked. Therefore, the picture below was used to educate the public in authenticating 房产证.

Quote from Boy, "What is Hanyu Pinyin? Why is it different pronounciation from what I've learnt so far?" ~puzzled~

........ my poor boy is totally confused in his Bi-lingual learning.

Why BlogSpot Got Blocked in China??

2007-04-02T16:27:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy
Mood: Amused

In the BlogSpot sphere, I found the following interesting blogs:

ABC chick in Shanghai ~ A self-proclaimed "坏女孩" (aka bad girl) who shares on her intimate experiences and thoughts.

FUCK! ~ Started by a group of foreign ladies who rant non-stop of sexpats they meet in China.

Sex and Shanghai ~ Written by a proud self-declared Western scoundrel who tells you how to get fucked in China.

There are quite a few more and you can find them cataloged on CBL. I wonder if it is because the BlogSpot is so owing more sizzling sexy blogs it is often being blocked nowadays by the China Telcom. :Ha Ha Ha

Blocked Again :(

2007-03-22T18:13:00.000+08:00

Weather: Sunny

Mood: UNHappy

My blog Musings of an Expat Tai-Tai in Shanghai seems to be blocked in Shanghai.... not too sure if it can be accessed in other parts of China or in the world. *shrugs*

Anyway, just asking my friend from Singapore to help add this post to inform you that I'm still around.... just not able to update my blog because of the inaccessibility. This is not the first time it happens, it happens sometime last year too, when I only get to blog again after a few weeks. So, I'm crossing my fingers that my blog will be unblocked very soon.

Okay, I'll be back when I can access my blog in Shanghai again.

Meanwhile, Take Care!

Flash Mob - A New Culture?

2007-03-19T13:54:00.000+08:00

Weather: Rainy
Mood: Curious

The Internet has spawned a gaggle of new verbs, for instance flash mobbing, which I recently get to read about in a local magazine. The term refers to a large group of people who gather in a usually predetermined location, perform some brief action, and then quickly disperse. Being curious, I visited FLASHMOB.COM to read more. One of the recent mobs was being organized in Michigan, and the mob members were supposed to do as follows:

"People gather. stop moving for 30 secondes then scream BANG! and drop to the ground. the Mob origintaor stays standing and says "and the world drops dead" everyone stands up, screams and scatters."

Hmmmm…… have you ever wondered why people wanna result to such preposterous actions? Me think nowadays, people just need an opportunity to break free from their monotonous, lackluster, everyday life?? lol

Through my further searching on the web, I hit upon an interesting site in China, called Team Buying China. It supposedly aims to drive unprecedented bargains by combining the reach of the internet with the power of the mob. In practice, like-minded strangers will organize themselves around a specific product or service, they would then meet up in real-world shops and showrooms at a coordinated date and time, literally mobbing the seller and negotiating a group discount on the spot.

I have sent in a request through Team Buying China expressing my interest for air-condition purchase about one month ago. So far, I have yet received any response from anyone. I wonder if mob buying actually works, and I wonder how genuine this site is. *shrugs*

Quote from Gal, "Mummy, I want to dress up like Hi-5!"

..... now my kids are starting to have idols. :)

Perhaps My Hubby Should Cook

2007-03-13T15:22:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy
Mood: Amused

According to China Daily, a national survey of various women in 20 cities across China claims that women in Shanghai seem to be the most satisfied with their love lifes. This is as result of 70% of the surveyed Shanghainese ladies mentioned they were "happy" with their marriage or relationship.

Having read this, I remember noticing that the younger generation of Shanghainese ladies can't cook or have no interest in cooking. I know a few of them and all express that they either eat at their parents' place or they eat out, and some of them reveal that their husband does the cooking.

Well, in Shanghai, it is common for the men to resume the role of marketing and cooking. I wonder if this is the reason why women are happier here. Because their partner do not mind taking up domestic responsibilites, unlike most of the Asian male counterparts.

Hmmmm.... maybe I should ask my husband to spend time in kitchen whenever possible. Perhaps this will prolong our marriage life. :P

A Short Family Movie

2007-03-12T17:59:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Happily Busy

I'm one of those who likes exploring new gadgets. For my birthyday present, my hubby gave me a nice Nokia N73. And I've been meddling with it's functionalities ever since. I like especially the camera capabilities and the embedded application where I can manipulate the photos I've taken.

Following is a short movie I created using my Nokia N73. Enjoy! ;)

It's being produced using recent family pictures I've taken, using just very little effort and time to do so. And I have fun. :)

Oh Well... you'll get to see more pictures and movies in my blog from now on. :D

Quote from Boy, "Can I watch a little TV first before I do my homework?"
.... being a typical boy, he's always looking for excuses to delay doing his homework. ~sigh~

Happy Birthday to Me!

2007-03-08T18:35:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Serene

As one gets older, birthday usually becomes trivial. In fact, some people even try not to be reminded of their birthday as they don’t like the idea of aging (I'm one of them. :P) But this year’s birthday does held a little significant, since I’m 38 and the age coincides with my date of birth, which happens to be 8th of March. Besides, it is the first year that I’m celebrating my birthday in Shanghai. :)

Ever since we were relocated in Shanghai, my hubby has been missing the birthdays of our kids and me. For instance today, my hubby is not able to bring me to candlelight dinner because he has business meetings to attend to in another city. However, he is nice enough to celebrate my birthday for me last night. He especially bought a cake (the last cake from a bakery shop near his office), and rush home by 8pm to sing the birthday song to me with our kids.

(Note: The picture below is taken last night.)

Although I am a little disappointed that my birthday is going to be a quiet one, but hey… I’m not about to drown in self-pity. In fact, I pamper myself this morning by going to the hair saloon, and I also have my manicure done. After whereby, I brought Legie (my Filipino help) for lunch, in celebration of Woman’s Day.

Oh yes… it’s not only my birthday, but it’s also International’s Women’s Day, a day which commemorates nine decades of struggle for equality, justice, peace and development for the females. Therefore, let us all raise a toast to ourselves, appreciate our heroic lady predecessors, and be glad we have come this far.

Quote from Boy, "What's the difference between boy and gal?"
...... oh oh, do you think it's okay if I reply him that gal get to celebrate Women's Day? :P

Where is Home?

2007-03-07T20:01:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Insecure

** Two Days Ago **

"Please be informed that the plane is descending, and we will be arriving in Pudong Airport shortly." I was jerked awake by the flight announcement. Still feeling dazed, I was wondering if I was flying abroad or flying home. Hmmm…. Home? I seem to have lost it ever since I was relocated with my hubby and children to Shanghai. ~sigh~

Home used to be thought as the place where our family and friends are located. However, as a result of globalization, people have to move from one place to another mainly due to job transfer or expansion. Therefore, we end up keeping touch with our family and friends through technology. Very often, during the transition period in relocation, we would feel like strangers regardless whether where we are. For instance, when we return to our home country, it is a vacation visit. And when we return to relocated country, it may still be a “wilderness” to us.

To be deemed a home, I guess it must first be a place we feel comfortable in and have easy access in all our needs. For instance, in Singapore, I know where to get the cheapest essential products that I need. And I also have access to reasonable and reliable personalized services, such as Manicure and Pedicure for only SIN$35, or Haircut, Wash and Blow for SIN$15. Perhaps through time, I can find similar convenience in Shanghai. It takes time to establish such sources. Currently, being an alien in Shanghai, I still end up paying premium prices to obtain trustworthy buys and services. ~shrug~

Although, I am consoled that my hubby is doing well in his career and my children are enjoying their schools. And for myself, at least my social circle in Shanghai is enlarging. Hopefully with time, I will find my sense of belonging in Shanghai.

Quote from Boy, "Can I have noodles please?"

..... it's cold in Shanghai, and my children kept asking for more food. Perhaps I'm not feeding them the right thing... hmmm.... ~puzzled~

Yuan Xiao in Shanghai

2007-03-05T15:19:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy + Windy
Mood: Tired, but Happy

The traditional Chinese New Year is celebrated for 15 days beginning from the first day of first lunar month. And on the 15th day, it is named Yuan Xiao, which denotes the first day of the year with a full moon. In the past, this day resembled Valentine’s Day when the young men and women would go out into the streets, look at the lanterns, solve the lantern riddles and, enjoy a rare chance to mingle freely with one another.

This year, the family came back to Shanghai earlier than practiced, and got the opportunity to celebrate Yuan Xiao Festival with the rest of the Singaporeans at a dinner function organized by SSBA-SCS in Regent Hotel. Overall, the 10-course dinner was nice enough with Lohei Yusheng, a Chines New Year good-luck dish invented by Singaporeans, being served as the first course. The organizers went round to every table to encourage each to put up a performance, but as usual, being low-profiled Singaporeans, we preferred to be the laid-back observers. Therefore, we ended with free singing performance by several members who no doubt are enthusiastic karaoke goers. (Picture Above: My little girl presenting rose as token of appreciation to one of the member performers.)

Overall, it was a pleasant evening when my hubby and I could catch up on lives in Shanghai with the rest of the Singaporeans. The night finished early at 9pm, and on our way home, we were delighted to catch lots of mini fireworks.

I think celebrating Chinese New Year in China could be quite fun since the spirit of celebration lasted 15 days rather than the short 3 public holidays. Perhaps we might want to try to stay back in China to celebrate Chinese New Year with the locals one of these years. 

Quote from Kids, “Mummy, can we go play outside…..”
..... my dear children could not keep still. Once they finished their rice, they would request to run around. *sigh*

Treasure Friendship

2007-02-28T16:14:00.000+08:00

Weather: Rainy
Mood: Happily Busy

Besides missing my family, I miss my Singapore friends most when I’m in Shanghai. Especially those whom I have known years ago…. the ones dated back from school days; This time round when I’m back in Singapore, I’m so happy that I get the chance to meet up some of them; Callin & Cerise (my JC pals), my all-girls gang from RGS (as displayed on left), and my peers from CCS.

These are the friends I do not really keep in touch with frequently, yet whenever we have our once-in-a-blue-moon meeting, we still share a comfortable bondage. We can laugh and tease each other without wondering if one possesses any ulterior motive. We can say silly things without worrying about damaging one’s image. And among the ladies, we even show each other the spare tires we accumulated around our waists. lol

Therefore, I would like to take this opportunity to share a friendship prayer, and I hope everyone can treasure friendship like I treasure mine.

A Friend's Prayer © Jill Wolf

May my friendships always be

The most important thing to me;

With special friends I feel I'm blessed,

So let me give my very best.

I want to do much more than share

The hopes and plans of friends who care;

I'll try all that a friend can do

To make their secret dreams come true.

Let me use my heart to see,

To realise what friends can be,

And make no judgements from afar,

But love my friends the way they are.

Happy Piggy Year :)

2007-02-20T10:45:00.000+08:00

Weather: Sunny

Mood: Joyous

It's good to be home in Singapore. It feels even better that I'm not forgotten by friends.

As soon as I'm back, I started to push for gatherings and meeting.... coz I miss my friends so much. I think people nowadays are so busy that often, they tend to neglect getting together with old-time friends. Therefore, sometimes friends become associates and later may even become "strangers". Therefore, it is good to take Lunar New Year as an opportunity to organize gatherings in order to maintain ties.

I'm only a few days home and I'm getting fatter with so many local food and CNY snacks. As my hubby and I were watching TV, my hubby kept feeding with tibbits. When I turned him down, he would pester me by describing how tasty the tibbits were..... lol Well, I think he's determine to turn me into a Golden Pig. :P Anyway, I'm not about to go on diet now, not while I'm in Singapore. The local food here is wonderful, so I'm going to eat all I want, so I won't miss it when I go back Shanghai. The most I'll frequent the gym more often when I'm back in Shanghai. *shrugs*

So how are you doing this CNY? Hope you're having fun. ;)

Quote by Boy, "Why my friend is not here yet?"

....... We invited some Singapore families we know in Shanghai to our house for visiting, one of them is my boy's classmate, and my boy is waiting impatiently for her to arrive.

Community Center Shanghai

2007-02-14T16:32:00.000+08:00

Weather: Sunny
Mood: Excited

Last Friday, I attended Coffee Connection at Community Center Shanghai. During the session, the volunteer, Valerie, share with us on the Chinese New Traditions. I must agree that it was a pretty enlightening session because being a Chinese, I am pretty amused to note that there are practices which I've heard for the first time. And followings are sharings that brought some laughters from the ground:

1. During the office re-union dinner, when the chicken is served, the staff who has the chicken head pointed at him/her will be fired.

2. People are encouraged to wear all red, including their underwear, since red signifies good luck.

3. In the Northern China, people eat dumplings or 饺子 so as to bear a son, since the chinese word 饺 sounds like sleeping while 子 means son.

4. If one is to give out red packet or 红包, he/she should make sure it contains money in doubles, meaning one can either give 20, 200 or 2000 RMB.

Anyway, for those foreigners who are going to celebrate with Chinese friends during Chinese New Year in China, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Malaysia or Singapore, do take care to find out the do or don't. Otherwise, you might just discover yourself being the laughing stock among friends. ;)

Tomorrow, I'll be going back home (SINGAPORE) for my Chinese New Year celebration. So, I foresee I might stop blogging for a few days. Therefore, I like to take this chance to wish all of my readers a Prosperous Chinese New Year ahead.

NOTE: The Community Center Shanghai organizes Coffee Connection which are morning gatherings among the expatriates every month. It is usually on a Friday morning at Royal Gardens Clubhouse in Pudong. There are also a lot of other activities organized by Community Center Shanghai. To find out more, kindly visit their website.

爱情不像食物 Love Unlike Food

2007-02-13T22:44:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy
Mood: Sentimental

我们可以把爱情比喻成很多东西，唯独我觉得爱情肯定不像食物。因为我吃什么都好，吃得多了就会感到腻。但是爱情，就算给与我更多，我也不会厌倦。可能我比交贪心吧。

我能想像云吞面没有云吞
我能想像汉堡包没有汉堡
我能想像萝卜糕没有萝卜
但我不能想像生活之中没有您
虽然我们不能朝日相对
但愿我们也能偶尔互相思念

我就快回星加坡过春节，所以特别想念星加坡的食物。写博客，也想着云吞面和萝卜糕。嘻！嘻！逞明天是情人节，以上诗词是我写来送给我的好朋友，当然也包或疼我的老公仔。

并在此预祝大家有情人能长相厮守。

The Flying Fox

2007-02-12T10:27:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine

Mood: Serene

Yesterday (11-Feb-07), we visited a new restaurant called The Flying Fox. I first read about it on a food forum when a member declared that she has no problem with the kids as long as there is Flying Fox. Therefore, I decided to check out the place.

The restuarant has not been a disappointment for the family. It is housed in a friendly western 2-storey wooden hut situated in JinQiao, Pudong. Next to the restaurant is a narrow river bank, and just in front of the restaurant is a green field with a small playground for the kids. I would the restaurant has very nice surroundings which is perfect for alfresco dining on a warm sunny day, where the parents can eat and watch the kids play at the playground.

Even on a cold day, the family can still enjoy their dining at the Flying Fox since there is a supervised playroom within the restaurant on the 2nd level.

As for food, the kid can order from the kid's menu, costing 48RMB each which comes with a main course, free-flow drinks and ice-cream. I couldn't really remember the selections of main course, I only remember my boy chose Mini Burger while my gal choose Spagetthi. The servings might be a little small for big eater, but since my kids are only 4 and 6 years old, the portion was sufficient for them.

As for my hubby and I, we ordered from the alacarte menu since set meals weren't servered. The menu consisted of mainly Western selections, with 2 interesting Asian dish, Fried Rice and Curry Rice. We tried the Fried Rice and it was tasty enough. And for 45RMB, the portion served was pretty big. Other selections on the menu include salads, sandwiches, burgers, pasta and breakfast dishes.

Generally, I find that The Flying Fox is not only a nice dining place for families, it can be quite an ideal place for having a drink with friends too, since it is decorated with cozy sitting areas with nice comfortable leather sofas. I didn't order anything from the drink list, but the prices seem reasonable enough from 20RMB to 60RMB depending on what you order.

I couldn't locate any website for The Flying Fox, so I suggest you check it out personally if you happen to be in Pudong:

Address: No 225, Hong Feng Road, Jinqiao, Shanghai. (opposite Ramada Plaza Pudong Hotel)

Tel: 50309807

Quote from Gal, "I want Barbie Doll hairstyle...."

......... only at 4 and my gal is starting to be concern of her look. *amused*

Update on Sygyzyland's Brunch

2007-02-12T09:01:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Light-Hearted

I went back to Sygyzyland last Saturday and discovered that the brunch was repriced from 99RMB to 168RMB per adult while the kids still enjoy their buffet meal and play at 38RMB per child.

Personally, I find the price 168RMB a little steep for a buffet brunch with limited selection. However, if you need to spend some adult time with friends without worrying about the kids, Sygyzyland is still a place worth visiting during weekends.

By the way, the official website for Sygyzyland has been launched. You might wanna check it out for more info. ;)

Difference in Educational Systems

2007-02-07T21:01:00.000+08:00

Weather: Sunny
Mood: Wondering

Today, I was having lunch with my 2 lady friends (Tai-Tai like me), and we touched on the value of Asian and American educational systems. Personally, I think that the Asian educational system is very competitive and I would prefer to send my kids to such if they can cope with it.

Another Tai-Tai pointed out that being in the American/European educational system is not too bad too, as the children are taught to learn in a creative way, thus they are groomed to be very confident and out-spoken, unlike Singaporeans (we speak for ourselves since we are Singaporeans), who tend to become a follower and usually, a lousy public presenter.

We concluded that both systems have their pros and cons, and it is best to have our children adapt to one that is most appropriate to their personalities.

Currently, I'm waiting for a placement for my boy to enter one of the International Schools in Shanghai. This is my boy's choice since he preferred to be taught in English. Thus sending my boy to a local school is out of the option. *shrugs*
Anyway, with the layback attitude that my boy have, I hope that he will find it a more enjoyable learning environment in a International School.

Anyway, the kids nowadays are really blessed with a more rounded learning environment, like having art and music included in their school curriculum, as compared to my generation which focused on languages and Maths.

Above is the "Art Wall" created by my two adorable ones (aged 4 & 6) in their room. For me, I don't remember doing so many art and craft stuff in my days.

Quote by Boy, "Is Dry Ice Ice?"

....... asked about the dry ice that comes in the box with the Haagen Daaz icecream cake.

Syzygyland II - Weekend Brunch

2007-02-05T18:50:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine

Mood: Wonderful

I had mentioned in my earlier post that I would be visiting Syzygyland for lunch, and write on it. Well... here it is....

On 28-Jan, my hubby and I brought our kids and Legie (aka - our domestic helper) to Syzygyland for lunch. Upon entering the restuarant, we were delighted to see an area of the restaurant being set up as the play area for the kids. On one side of this play area are occupied by a few playstations set up for painting, playdoh, puzzles and other fun activities. While on the other side of the play area are meant for active kids playing balls or simply running around.

As for the menu, Syzygyland serves buffet brunch on the weekend, which costs 38RMB for child and 99RMB for adult. And the adult can top up more RMB to spice up his/her day with free flow of alcohol drinks. (Since I don't drink, I'm not sure of the pricing. :P)

Buffet is international style serving salads, breads, soups, desserts and a selection of main dishes such as fried rice, pasta, chicken, sirloin steaks, etc. The kids enjoy their very own buffet which includes burgers, spaghetti, pizzas and sandwiches.

Personally, I think the food is pretty standard, just like what you get from buffet of any average hotels. However, with the kids being taken care by the Child Academy staff (engaged by the restaurant) at their very own play area, the parents can definitely enjoy a long relaxing afternoon with uninterrupted meal and chats.

Syzygyland is located in German Center as photographed above. Please click on the link to visit the Syzygyland site for more info since their website is now up.

Quote from Gal, "I have Barbie toy and stickers coz I good gal...."

...... well, she got those coz it was her birthday but she didn't seem to understand that. :D

Syzygyland

2007-01-26T13:19:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy
Mood: Relax

On the website, this restaurant was being written as the “Best New Weekend Place for Families in Pudong”. Out of curiosity, I decided to check it out even prior to weekend. Thus on Monday, when my hubby and I needed to attend to some official matters, I suggested having lunch at Syzygyland.

On entering Syzygyland, I was amazed by the size of the restaurant. It is very spacious with quite many tables which I think can easily cater to a hundred patrons. Perhaps it is a new establishment; therefore, although it is lunch hours, the restaurant wasn’t crowded. I also noticed that most of the patrons were foreigners.

There is set meal menu (change weekly) offered during lunch time at prices 38, 48 and 68 RMB respectively. All set meals include soup and free-flow of bread. The difference in the price range is selection of sandwich, pasta and meat course. Both my hubby and I ordered the 48 RMB set lunch. He chose to have the seafood fettuccine while I chose to have the chicken feta pasta. Both dishes were delicious, and though the proportion was big, we finished up all our food.

Since we hold the enjoy privilege card, we got to enjoy desserts which were cheese cake and chocolate cake. ~yummy~

Oh yes! I almost forget to mention about the service in Syzygyland. With a group of attentive and warm waiters and waitresses, we left the restaurant with a satisfied smile.

Now, I am only looking forward to visiting Syzygyland again for their weekend brunch. I was told by a waitress that they have professional supervision from The Child Academy from 10am-4pm during weekends.

Syzygyland’s website is not ready yet, so you might want to note it is opened from 10am to 10am and the address is as follows:
OuterPudong Land
German Centre
1/F 88 Keyuan Lu, Pudong
(along Longdong Dadao)
Tel: +8621 28986115

Quote from Gal, "I don't want old school, I want new school."

.... my gal has recently been transferred to an International School.

Shanghai Children Museum

2007-01-23T10:53:00.000+08:00

Weather: Drizzling
Mood: Tired (Having Flu)

As my hubby and I were busy with the renovation of our new apartment, the children have been "stuck" at home for the last couple of weekends. Therefore, we decided to bring the kids out on Saturday. Since the weather was mostly rainy, we thought an indoor excursion was more appropriate. Thus, we chose to venture a new place of interest, the Shanghai Children Museum.

The museum is located in Puxi, at Song Yuan Road, very near to Gubei. Upon reaching the museum, the children were all excited as the building structure looks colorful and futuristic. The admission cost is affordable, at 20RMB per person, regardless of kid or adult.

The museum consists of 2 floors divided into the following: Nautical Hall, Space Hall, Moon Hall and 2 Informational Halls. On the 2nd floor is the Shanghai Discovery Children Museum, which was relocated here from Yang Qu Road on 23-September-2006. This is interactive exploration exhibit "room" suitable for children from ages 2 to 7. And it is in this Shanghai Discovery Children Museum that my children enjoyed themselves most.

Overall, the 3-hour visit to the museum is an enjoyable one. Although some exhibits in the museum were out of order, but it had not hindered our children from enjoying the rest of the functioning exhibits. When the children were asked if they liked to visit again, both shouted "YES!" without hesitation. :)

NOTE: Click on the links to visit the museum website for more info.

Quote from Boy, "A lot of boys like Ivan, but Ivan only likes to play with me."
........ Ivan is my Boy's classmates from school.

International or Local?

2007-01-19T13:06:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy
Mood: Thoughtful

Should we send our children to international schools, or get them accustomed to the local educational system? This question has been haunting my hubby and me ever since we have relocated to Shanghai.

We went around the city to check out the international schools and we found that the fees charged are ridiculously high. The average annual fee for a student is about 160,000RMB or US$21,000. We are referring to school fees, excluding miscellaneous expenditures, for students in the level from Nursery to Primary 3. And although the school fees are expensive, the more reputable ones have long waiting list of students waiting to get a placement.

In the end, my husband and I decided to send our children to a reputable local private school. However, after more than a year, when my boy is of age to enter Primary education, the question came back to haunt us again as the current local school that our children are studying in stopped at Kindergarten level. So... should we let our boy continue to study in a local school, or move him to an international school? Personally, I prefer to let him continue in a local school since the Chinese curriculum is a lot tougher. I am thinking that if my boy can cope with the local educational system, I believe he can cope anywhere else. But my boy pleaded for us to send him to an English-speaking school instead. I guess having spoken English at home since young, he is more comfortable to study in English.

As liberal parents, we decided to give in to our boy's request. Ultimately, we needed our children to enjoy their learning years. We registered our children in an international school which we find creditable. My girl was lucky and she was offered a place in Nursery quite soon. My boy is still on the waiting list to be placed in Level 1.

Hopefully by putting my children into International Schools, we are making a right decision.

Quote from Gal, "Okay.... Okay.... I know... I know...."

..... whenever I give her advices.......

Home Sweet Home

2007-01-12T11:57:00.000+08:00

Weather: Rainy
Mood: Occupied

We finally got our own apartment in Shanghai. We reckon it is better to own an apartment than to negotiate the rental terms every year. The apartment we purchased consisted of 3 bed-rooms, 2 bathrooms, living room and kitchen. In terms of floor-area, it is smaller than the apartment we own in Singapore, however, considering the expensive property prices in Shanghai, we are happy with what we got.

We have already engaged a contractor to renovate the apartment. According to plan, we should be able to move in by May. For the size of our apartment, it should take a shorter time to renovate if not because we need to factor in the Lunar New Year festival in Febuary. During this festive period, the locals, which includes the renovators, will be going back to their home town for celebration. And since money has been spent to journey home, they would usually stay for 2 weeks to a month.

I have been very excited about the renovation... in order to generate renovation ideas, I've been reading up books and magazines. Since we have a controlled budget on the renovation, I intend to look up locally produced materials for the house. Anything imported into China would cost a bomb. However, locally produced stuff often has quality issues, therefore, I have to do a little bit of research in order to choose something reliable.

Since rennovation is at it's innitial stage, I have nothing really much to share at the moment. Meanwhile, you'll see me often in furniture shops with books, papers and tape measures, penning down prices and measurements of potential furnitures.

I'm hopeful that at the end of the day, I can help to create a haven in Shanghai for our family.

Quote from Boy, "I don't want to wear the jacket inside, it makes me look fat."

My boy is so vain that he be cold than to look fat by wearing too much. *sigh*

A Peaceful 2007

2007-01-04T15:10:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy
Mood: Relax

It has been drizzling since the start of 2007 in Shanghai. The Chinese believe that water is good, since water represents wealth. Thus, I hope 2007 will be a year filled with prosperity, peace and love for all.

The festive weekend was relaxing for the family. As it was raining on and off, we didn't plan any outdoor activities for the kids, especially since both of my darlings were having flu and cough that couldn't be stopped. And to prevent boredom from the kids, we made sure they were occupied with arts and crafts, board games and lots of television programs. I also helped to reinforce the holiday mood by cooking up scrumptious meals. Although my choosy kids were not so enthusiastic with my gastronomic creations, my hubby showed credit by cleaning up my prawn soup noodles and stewed pork ribs beehoon. :)

Back to this New Year, I foresee myself to be preoccupied with some personal events. Therefore, I'll probably be spending less time online. However, I would try to keep up with my blog at least once a week since writing has always been a pleasurable pastime for me. For those who are interested to catch up with my goings-on in Shanghai, do make it a point to visit weekly.

Meanwhile, Best of Wishes for All in 2007. ;)

Quote from Boy, "Why everyday must go to school?"

Back from A Pleasant Vacation

2006-12-27T14:36:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy

Mood: Relax

We have returned to Shanghai for a while, but I was too lazy to come here to give you an update. :P

Well, the trip to Hong Kong was good, we did everything as planned. When the kids were asked which they enjoyed,
Disneyland or Ocean Park? They said they like both. In my opinion, children are easily satisfied..... as long as they feel loved and they get to play, they will be a happy bunch.

Above are my adorable ones enjoying one of the rides in the Kids' World in Ocean Park.

Since the Hong Kong vacation was a short 3-days trip, I didn’t get to shop much as the days were occupied by visits to the theme parks. However, my impression is that the things in Hong Kong seem more expensive than before. Perhaps the prices were jerked up by the rich visitors from Mainland. *shrugs*

Quote from Gal, “Rice comes from rice cooker.”

Trip Confirmed... HURRAY!!

2006-12-15T14:50:00.000+08:00

Weather: Clear with Sunshine
Mood: Fantastic

As posted in Crossing My Fingers, I said I might have an announcement to make... here it is... me and my family are going on a trip to Hong Kong. Please don't envy me, it was a last minute arrangement. And well, it's definitely not easy to plan a trip for 5 especially when everywhere in the world is having school holidays now. Therefore, I couldn't confirm if we are going or not until I have the green light from all sources.

Finally, we have got our flight confirmed, our hotel booked, and the leaves confirmed. :D

So, Hong Kong Disneyland and Hong Kong Ocean Park, here we come!!

Shall give you an update of our trip when we are back. Until then... take care. ;)

Quote from Gal, "No, this is not mine... mine is pink color."

.... nowadays, the choice color of my daughter is pink, nothing but pink. *shrugs*

A Happy Couple

2006-12-12T11:56:00.000+08:00

Weather: Foggy

Mood: Happy

The couple I'm referring to is my brother and my sis-in-law. They have flew back to Singapore yesterday, and they were very satisfied with their trip in Shanghai since they have accomplished their "mission". Their mission was to have their wedding photo shoot.

Even prior to their arrival in Shanghai, they already requested me to hunt for a reliable studio for them to get their wedding photo. However, due to wide variety of choices here, I had a hard time giving my recommendation. In the end, I gathered some basic information and asked them to make their choice personally when they arrived in Shanghai.

On their 2nd day in Shanghai, we went to Hua Hai Lu, which I was told by an associate that this is where we can find most of the wedding studios. In the end, my sister-in-law picked Jennifer Studio because of their convincing sales manager who managed to offer them an attractive wedding photo package.

My brother and sis-in-law went ahead with the photo-shoot on the 3rd day, and on the 8th day, they got to see and picked their photos. I must say Jennifer Studio must indeed be very professional that they managed to get my brother to spend another 650RMB on a private room during the photo shoot and chose a collection of additional photos costing 2000RMB.

Nevertheless, I am happy that my brother and sis-in-law return home with smiling faces. :D

Quote From Gal, "Why my Barbie Dolls never hungry?"

Mandarin - A Tough Language?

2006-12-11T09:45:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy, with Occational Drizzle

Mood: Relax

Learning a foreign language can be tough business, slight mispronunciation may sound as if you said something offensive.

I was coaching Legie (my Pilipino maid) on Mandarin, and I began by teaching her how to greet people. Generally, the locals here address my hubby by his title 叶总, so I told Legie to greet my hubby by that as well. However, out from her mouth was something that sounded like 野种, which is equivalent of bastard in English.我的天啊！OMG!

After several failed attempts of correcting her pronounciation, I gave up. No more calling my hubby 叶总 by Legie again, in case she ended up insulting my hubby instead. :P
Oh well, so it's back to her addressing my hubby as Sir. *shrugs*

Quote from Son, "Mummy, my head pain...."

Quote from Gal, "Mummy, my stomach pain..."

.... when my kids don't feel like doing something what I asked, these are the reactions. *sigh*

Great Tea Place - Rose House

2006-12-08T20:53:00.000+08:00

Weather: Drizzy, 12-16deg
Mood: Happy

I had a wonderful lunch gathering with an overseas friend in Superbrand Mall today. After a lengthy meal and seemingly never-ending chat, I decided to chase him back to his office since I didn't want to affect his work.
:P

As for me, I decided to check out Rose House located on 1st floor of the mall. I have always been attracted to this place ever since I passed by and noticed its elegant European designer setup, and flowery fragrant lingered from the interior.

Having glanced through the menu, I ordered the seemingly reasonably lower-price high-tea set at 99RMB. It comes with sweet stuff (apple pie, cheese cake, cookies & muffin), as well as savory stuff (potatoe pie, rice & sandwich). And the set come with any selection of tea costing 45RMB. If we ordered any tea which cost more, we simply need to top up the difference.

Since I had lunch, I manage to try 1/3 of what was served, but fortunately, the remainder food can be packed home.

You must be wondering if I had enjoyed myself since I was alone? Sure, I stayed there for almost 2 hours, busying myself with the large selection of books available. And of course in this kind of environment, it is best choice to read romantic stories. ;)

Quote from Boy, "When I grow up, I want to be a football player."

To Give or Not To?

2006-12-05T16:52:00.000+08:00

Weather: A Little Cloudy
Mood: Busy, Real Busy

Disclaimer: Following written is just my personal opinion with no disrespect towards any individual in particular.

In China, beggars are common, and it is quite prominent to see them beg inside subways. For instance while taking the subways yesterday; I met a number of them.

For instance, one of the beggars was a mother with a toddler of about 3-4 years old. It wasn’t the first time I saw her on subways. Usually she acted as if she was overwhelmed by carrying a big bag and the toddler, and at the same time trying to feed her sometimes crying toddler biscuits or water. Once, a passenger felt sorry for the mother and gave up her seat to her. Instead of taking the seat and feed her toddler in comfort, the mother stretched out her hand and started pleading the surrounding passengers for money. I was one of the passengers in sight and did I give in to her request for money? NO.

Being a mother myself, I absolutely abhor the idea of any parent begging with their children. It is unthinkable that a parent with a little self-respect and who loves his/her child, would degrade himself/herself to beg publicly with his/her child. Aren’t they afraid of providing a negative influence towards his/her child? And for the child, will he/she grow up to have any self esteem.

Having besieged by such common "pitiful" scenarios, I started to question myself whether I am doing right by conveniently giving these beggars a few bucks. Therefore now, I rather make a donation to charity organizations which can help these people more constructively, then giving money to individuals which might encourage the vagabond trend to prosper in China.

However, when I come across disabled and/or old people, I would still try to offer assistance in kind, such as food. For them, I believe they have little or no chance in being employed in China, with such dense population. Therefore, the least I can do is help them survive another day with a filled stomach.

Quote from Boy, "Why is it people must talk in different lauguages? Isn't it confusing?"

I have Visitors \(.)/

2006-12-01T19:10:00.000+08:00

Weather: Clear (starting to get real cold)
Mood: Wonderful

December is always a good month for me. Especially for this Decemeber, I am going to have a few people whom I adored are coming to Shanghai for a visit.... this includes my brother and his wife, my adopted bro of 12 years old, and a good friend, someone who is the first I befriended when I arrived in China. :)

My family members mentioned will be arriving tomorrow and they will be putting up at my place. Therefore, depending if they need my company, I might not be blogging as frequent next week. Nevertheless, I promise to provide an update here once I have the chance.

Wishing you a good weekend, and a wonderful month ahead. ;)

Quote from Gal, "Can I have one chocolate please? Just only only."
..... where she will repeat this sentence several times. *shake head* lol

Romantic Evening at Jade 36

2006-11-30T16:25:00.000+08:00

Weather: Clear (but wish it was Sunnier)

Mood: Wonderfully Happy

Last night, I went on a candle-light dinner date with my hubby at a glam dining destination – Jade on 36 Restaurant located in Pudong Shangri-la. As it planned out, it was a wonderful night of dining, wining and great chats. Upon arrival at the restaurant, I was already much impressed with the romantic ambiance and sophisticated decoration. :)

During reservation, I requested for a table with a view. Therefore on arrival, we were led to be seated at a table just next to the window. Therefore, we were dazzled with stunning panoramic views of the famous Bund. And with the soft music and lighting in the restaurant, this is indeed an idealistic dating place for couples. :)

(Note: The table on the extreme top right in the above *picture* was where we were seated.)

Probably the owner of the restaurant would like us to be absolutely relax without exercising our brain too much, thus the dishes are categorized in set menus, which range of large meals of 8 dishes, and small meals of 5 dishes. Together with my hubby and me was another couple, friends of my hubby. Incidentally, all of us picked various choices of the small meal. I asked my hubby why he didn't choose the larger set meal and he replied that he was afraid he couldn't get used to the international taste. :P

For me, I must say I was happy with the choice I made. Except for the first course, foie gras, which the taste I could not get accustomed to, I enjoyed all the rest of my food. I was especially delighted with 2 of them - Jumbo Shrimp and Beef Short Rib in Japanese Teriyaki, which are both signature dish of the restaurant.

The Jumbo Shrimp, was a large prawn being presented on a skewer inside a large jar to preserve the flavor whilst cooking. And in the jar were unusual aromatic sauce, combining orange peel and juice, coriander and bay leaf, which gave the prawn a citrus yet pleasant taste.

As for Beef Short Rib, it was cooked in Japanese Teriyaki sauce to perfect tenderness, and then being served with creamy mashed potato and greens. (as shown in *picture* below)

The cost of dining here is pricey, averaging 750RMB per person for our dinner last night. However, given the ambience, the attentive service and the delicious food, I really do not mind coming back again, if someone else is paying. ;)

Quote from Boy,"If you work, does it mean that I can buy toy?"

Where is the SUN?

2006-11-29T15:53:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cold & Wet

Mood: Tired

I was shivering from cold when I came back from my hair-do just a moment ago.

Why?

Coz I made used of my coat to shelter my new hair-do. :P

Don't ask me why I hasn't brought an umbrella..... the weather was nice and clear in the morning when I came out.

Don't ask me why I shelther my head instead of keeping warm with my coat..... are you crazy? Me not going to waste my money spoiling my new hair-do by the rain.

I used to hate sunny hot weather in Singapore. But now, I'm missing our SUN.

Quote from my Gal, "Are the sun and the rain playing hide & seek?"

Shake Head

2006-11-28T16:14:00.000+08:00

Weather: Gloomy
Mood: Relax

Guess what?! Of all things I can learn in China, I learn to shake my head. :D

Don't understand what I mean?

Well, I find the people here (in Shanghai) can be extrememly unhelpful. Whenever I ask for assistance, either I get a very fast "I dunno" response, or the person shaking his/her head. I guess it's a cultural thing since the locals believe in "自扫门前雪" or minding own business. *shrugs*

By the way, my Philipino maid is finally here. And while we were doing grocery shopping with her this morning, I taught her this:

"If you are approached by strangers, simply shake your head."

Quote from Boy, "Mummy, can I have see only, I won't buy, just see only."

Hooters... still way to go

2006-11-27T15:53:00.000+08:00

Weather: Gloomy
Mood: Amused

On Saturday, I suggested to my hubby to check out the renowned American themed restaurant Hooters. Since our son has begun to appreciate female sex appeal, we decided to bring him along. ;)

Although it was on a weekend, the restaurant was pretty quiet when we arrived at about 6pm. for dinner. The decoration was pretty much as expected; casual beach-theme establishment featuring "oldies" jukebox music, sports on television, and a menu that includes seafood, sandwiches, salads and spicy chicken wings. However, the Hooter Girls were not as boisterous as promised.

Probably we should have stuck with the items in the menu, but my son decided to divert by asking for Root Beer. Considering that this is an American restaurant, I was surprised that the Hooter Girl that was servicing us does not have any idea what the soft drink was. Instead, she told us obligingly that they have beers, but they are called draft beers. lol Then my frustrated son ask for a Coke Float, and the cute Hooter Girl again was lost as to what a Float is. Instead of wasting time trying to explain to the clueless Hooter Girl, I asked for a Sprite on behalf of my son. * shake head *

While waiting for our food to be served, I commented to my hubby that most of the Hooter Girls have bulging tummies showing from their overly-small mini shorts. And my hubby humorously replied that sexy gals are expected to have big boobs and those who own big boobs usually come with excess fats. lol

Personally, I find that the Hooters in Shanghai has not live up to its image. Although the food was acceptable, the ambiance was far from "delightfully tacky, yet unrefined". Besides, the cost of having a proper meal here is pricey, with also a 10% surcharge. Therefore, unless I have money to squander, I doubt I'll be back here for another dinner. *shrug*

Pleasant Surprise

2006-11-24T14:42:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Good

Imagine my delight when I find I can access this website of mine today when I accidentally click on it. :)

Well... things have been fine since the last time I blogged:

1) Although with occasional cough and sneeze, I'm feeling much better now.

2) My mum was here for a visit (she left 2 days ago), and it was nice to have someone here to drive away my boredom and distress. :)

3) I received concerning mails and messages from friends, which I feel warm that there are those out who care. :)

4) My brother and sister-in-law will be coming to Shanghai for vacation. I look forward to their arrival. :D

I guess that's all of my updates for now. I usually kept the weekends free for my family. Thus, will get back to you on Monday. ;)

Last but not least, Happy ThanksGiving!

Strange....

2006-11-03T20:07:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Tired

Haven't been feeling well lately.... must be the change of weather. However, I have to keep my spirit high since I have 2 kids to look after. Fortunately, my fever has subsided today and I feel my strength returning. At least I'm not dragging my feet.....

But that's not why I stopped blogging here... somehow, I have problem accessing this site. Checked with my friend via email and he replied he had no problem visiting my blog... so, I wonder is it only my problem accessing in Shanghai. Anyway, I posting this "blindly" just to ensure you out there know what's been going on.

Meanwhile, I'll be resting for a few more days. Hopefully, I can access this site by then and share with you happier events. ;)

Ciao for now, my friends.

I Survived.

2006-10-25T15:00:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cool and Sunny
Mood: Tired

In Shanghai, I have joined as a member of a fitness centre; therefore, I do go for regular workout. Usually, I'll choose low impact workout classes like dancing and yoga. With my hubby away on business and I have access to the car, I decided to drive to the centre today to try out the step aerobic class this morning, having heard from my Tai-Tai friends that it is very fun.

Well, bad decision I made.

Just 5 minutes from doing the step aerobic, I felt as if I was going to die. Besides dripping with perspiration, I was panting like a dog. 15 minutes into the exercise routine, I felt my heart beating wildly, as if it was going to burst anytime. 25 minutes into the exercise routine, my legs and arms didn't seem to belong to me because I had to try so hard to manipulate them. However, seeing that everybody in the class was moving with the rhythm, I persevered.

Surprisingly about 30 minutes into the class, 2 ladies decided to leave. I was tempted to join them, but I kept telling myself I wasn't a quitter.

Fortunately, the step aerobic class only lasted for 45 minutes. And when the class finished, I just sat down, closed my eyes and thanked God silently in my head that the torture was over. :P

Now I'm feeling thoroughly exhausted. I wonder if it's because of the exercise I just did this morning, or because of the disrupted sleep I had as a result of taking care of my kids at night. Nevertheless, I think I deserve a good rest. Shall go now to put on a facial mask, turn on the music and enjoy a lazy nap. :D

Quote from Gal, “I don't want school coz teacher angry me.”

Greetings

2006-10-24T10:40:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cool and Sunny
Mood: Wonderful

I think I've been away from home for too long that I've lost track of the holidays back in Singapore. No wonder mum didn't call, and my inbox was empty. Hmmmm.......

Nevertheless.....

Selamat Hari Raya and Happy Deepavali to all Muslims and Hindus.

And wishing my family and friends back home an enjoyable long holiday. ;)

Quote from Boy: "This looks like M is actually W when turns upside down."

Shanghai Science and Technology Museum

2006-10-23T15:12:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cool @ about 22deg
Mood: Tired

Weekends are always tiring for us, the parents. On Saturday, we have to ferry our kids to their weekend classes, while on Sunday, we would usually think up a place for they to have some fun.

Yesterday, on my son's request, we went to the Shanghai Science and Technology Museum situated in Pudong, which is only about 15 minutes drive away from our home. We reached there in the late morning, had lunch in the food court, and started our exploration of the museum at about 12.30pm. By 5.30pm, we only managed to complete about 80% of the exhibits. We didn't just walk around though, since we decided to watch a 40-min movie on Insects' Life in one of the IMAX cinemas.

Of all the exhibits, our kids enjoyed the Childrens' Technoland most, where they participate in all kinds of technology recreation designed for their age.

Overall, I think it is quite good to bring the kids to explore any museums if you have the time. It is not only educational but it can be also very entertaining for the family.

If you need more information on Shanghai Science and Technology Museum, you may visit http://www.sstm.org.cn/english/index.htm.

Quote from Boy: "Mummy, please buy this toy because I really really need it."

Kids Talk

2006-10-20T15:05:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Happy

At 5 and at 3, my two children are at the age where they start analysing their surroundings. And sometimes, they can tell you things, or ask you questions that make you wonder how their minds work. Anyway, I am finding myself enjoying our every "kiddish conversation".

For instance, when I saw my boy kill an ant without hesitation during shower last night, this is what I told my boy:

"Boy, do you know that by splashing water on the ant, the ant will die, and if the ant die, the parents will be angry, and the parents will come to look for you later."

"But when we shower, the water will also make the ant die...."

"But when the water make the ant die, the parent will revenge on the water, now that you are the one that make it die, the parent will revenge on you."

Boy started to look a little scared. Not wanting to frighten the boy too much, I continued,

"Well... since the ant is dead, I guess that's nothing you can do, maybe if you apologize to the ant, the ant's parents will not come for their revenge."

Boy looked at me with a questioning face while I nodded my head firmly and quickly.

So my boy turned to the dead ant and murmured, "Sorry, little ant."

Just my attempt to teach my little boy on kindness to living things. ;)

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I am trying to capture the funny sayings from my children. So from now, I shall end each post with a saying from my children. Enjoy! ;)

Quote from Boy: "Babies come from fat women."

Nice Weather

2006-10-19T16:20:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy
Mood: Relax

I'm enjoying the weather in Shanghai. It's averaging 25 degree in the day and falls slightly below 20 degree in the evening.... not too warm, and not too cold. I wish the weather can stay the way it is, but I think it is going to get cooler.

Why am I writing about weather? Well... just a thought that sweeps my mind. Seems I miss everything about Singapore except the weather. If I can change one thing about my homeland, I'll probably have it turned to a four-seasons country. :D

Groceries Shopping Time

2006-10-18T10:26:00.000+08:00

Weather: Slightly Cloudy
Mood: Headache

Now that I'm a housewife, I can understand why my mother-in-law used to keep asking us what we want for lunch or dinner. Then, I would always give her my standard reply, "Anything lor." From now on, I would probably not give this same reply again.

I wonder if the guys and the kids know that it can be a BIG JOB to think of what to prepare for meals every day. Every time, I ponder what groceries to buy, because I'm wondering what I should cook. If I cook the same dish day after day, I am wary that the family would get tired eating it. But if I cook a new dish, I am wary that that family may not like the taste. So cooking can be a worrisome task, although I do enjoy cooking (just not the washing up).

Well... suddenly this tot comes to mind because it's time to go for groceries shopping today. The fridge is almost empty since I haven't been bothered to shop for the last few days. Guess I better not be lazy....... :P

My New Baby

2006-10-17T12:02:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Busy

The toy TAMAGOTCHI has made it to Shanghai. You'll see commercials of it day and night over the TV. Needless to say, my boy was influenced by the fun it promised over the commercials, therefore he kept pestering me to buy him a TAMAGOTCHI.

So, I bought him one. However, my boy decided that TAMACHTCHI is too difficult for him. Thus, the newly-bought TAMAGOTCHI became an orphan. Not wanting to waste my money, I decided to adopt the TAMAGOTCHI. So, for these few days, I have been busy with feeding, cleaning and playing with PIG (my boy gave the TAMAGOTCHI this name).

Time does pass faster now that I have a new toy to keep me companied while the kids are in school.

As for my hubby, he is head over heels with work. Before he can get over his jet lapse, he is flying again on business trip today. Poor poor darling...... hope he watches his health. Otherwise, it would be tough he falls sick and I have to care for an additional one. * crossing my fingers *

Four 民族 of S'pore

2006-10-13T09:47:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cloudy
Mood: Motherly

Last night, my boy came home and told me that his teacher would like us parents to help research on中国民族。He enthusiastically shared that there are 56民族 in China and he went on to name a few. I was impressed. So I told him that we would go to the internet to research on the subject, and perhaps print some information to be shared in class. He clapped his hand in agreement. Unfortunately, our mission failed. The printer screwed us up. We couldn't print anything. :(

I hand-written a note for my boy to be given to his teacher to apologize for the failure to complete the school's request. And in the same note, I asked the teacher not to reprimand my boy since he was already very disappointed.

As for cheering my boy up, I decided to share with him the four 民族 in Singapore and they are as follows:

1. 汉族 Chinese

2. 马来族 Malay

3. 安普娘娘族 Indian

4. 老外族 European

Well, the last two terms in Chinese are not really accurate, just my attempt to humor my boy. And we did have a good laugh when my boy try to memorize the four 民族 of Singapore. :D

NOTE: Tomorrow my hubby is returning home.... HURRAY!!!

Farewell, Nails!

2006-10-12T13:06:00.000+08:00

Weather: Warm & Sunny
Mood: Silly

I made an IMPORTANT DECISION today. I am going to shorten my finger nails.

** Sigh ** I dun have any choice, it's too tough to care for my children with my current long nails. Every time I shower for them, or apply body lotion for them, I am so wary of leaving red scuff marks on them. What kind of mother am I if I care for myself more than my children?

So Good-Bye........

My well-manicured beautiful nails. :(
No worries, I'll have you back once Auntie Legie returns.
I promise!!

NOTE: 2 days to Hubby's Return! He better know how reward me for me sacrifice. :P

3 Days to Hubby's Return

2006-10-11T12:07:00.000+08:00

Weather: Slightly Cloudy

Mood: In Controlled

I wonder why the Westerners got to have a few drinks before resuming to dinner?

My husband called from his business trip and he complained that he was starving (it was 9pm), but his associates were still enjoying their beers. I told him to take it easy and don't get drunk, otherwise he might find a blond sleeping beside him the next morning. My silly husband challenged that it might not be a bad idea. So I told him to wear his condom before getting drunk. :P

So far, all is fine in Shanghai. Although the kids made a few hassles because the absence of their Auntie Legie, I managed to put them down with a stern lecture. I told them that it is now only me and them, so if they fail to behave, they will get it from me, and no one is here to their rescue.

Well, nowadays, kids are smart enough to play psychology games. Therefore, to effectively discipline them, we should not blindly provide only TLC (i.e. Tender Loving Care). Sometimes, it is necessary to let them know who the boss is. ;)

Give Me A Little Patience

2006-10-10T09:03:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Hopeful

I didn't share with my mum that my hubby is away. The maid that my parents sent are due to return to Singapore today. So, I didn't want my mum to worry that I would be alone caring for their pampered grandchildren. Well... in the eyes of parents, their children can never meet their expectations in terms of capability to care of self and others, regardless if one is 13 or 30 years old. ** LOL **

I am not afraid to care for my children... they are afterall my flesh and blood. But I do have a concern. They have been quite attached to the Philipino maid lately. Thus I suspect that her departure would no doubt create a little anguish for my children. I am crossing my fingers that the children can adapt to their Auntie Legie's (ie. Phlipino maid) absence with ease.

Patience has never been my strong point. So, family and friends, do say a little prayer for me that I can cope with my kids especially when they throw their temper. ;)

Any Haven?

2006-10-09T11:15:00.000+08:00

Weather: Fine
Mood: Thoughtful

Nothing much to update, except that it'll be a solitude week ahead with my hubby going on overseas business trip, and my parents' Philipino maid returning to Singapore.

Also, since yesterday, a part-time AiYi was hired to come in every morning to take care of the house chores. She's a 40-year-old lady, petite and looks younger than her age. The first impression of her is quite alright since she seems decent. However, I shall reserve my opinion till further observation so as not to risk disappointment later. I have long learnt that you can't tell a person by his/her appearance. ** sighs **

Well.... my hubby commented that I have become easily suspicious and guarded nowadays. I retorted that I am just being careful due to the many deceitful encounters I experienced locally. I added that if we are striving for better quality life, we should consider relocating to an ethically more conscious country.

But the question.... is there any country that can be considered a haven nowadays? ** shrugs **

Back to Routine

2006-10-07T16:58:00.000+08:00

Weather: Warm & Sunny
Mood: Relax

Today is the last day of the Golden Week vacation, so I decided that the family should be home, getting our mindset ready to return to routine life. Therefore, with my hubby and kids all taking a nap now, I decided to come to give my blog an update. ;)

On 1st and 2nd of October, we checked into the 5-star Le Meridien She Shan Hotel as planned. My kiddo bro didn't join us since he preferred to spend more time familiarizing with Shanghai.

It was an easy drive to the hotel since it was only located an hour or so from Shanghai city. Upon checking into the hotel, we eagerly went off for sight-seeing at the nearby She Shan Cathedral and the She Shan Observatory. After whereby we headed back to the hotel for a relaxing swim (must at least try using the facilities, right?). In the evening, we have a heart-contented dinner at the 5th floor Chinese restaurant (good food but poor service). And I guessed the kids must be so tired that they fell asleep immediately upon reaching the room. So, leaving the maid to attend to the sleeping children, my husband and I went out for a night of rendezvous (hee... hee... for us to know, for you to find out. :P)

Next day, we had late check-out at 2pm, but we didn't do much except lingered in the room to watch TV and had instant-noodles for lunch (the favorite food of the family).

On our way back to Shanghai, we discovered a new shopping place which resembles the factory outlets in States. But we only managed to venture momentarily at the spot since it was crowded during the festive season. However, we vowed to return again for our shopping spree. :D

And for the last few days, we only went out for meals or hung out in the vicinity of Pudong. We avoided going to places since we did not want to risk encountering a stampede. :P

An update on the hunt for my stay-in AiYi..... well, still no good news yet. But I managed to ask for a part-time helper to come in tomorrow. At least I do not have to worry about getting my hands rough when my parents’ Philipino maid returns on Tuesday. * shrugs *

Kiddo Bro In Town

2006-09-29T16:42:00.000+08:00

Weather: Drizzle
Mood: Blah

My kiddo brother is in town. Okay.... he's 35, but because he's the youngest in the family, thus to me, he'll always be a kiddo.

Seems like he had finished what he had to do in Beijing, and being bored, he suddenly remembered he had a sister in Shanghai, that’s why he booked a flight last night to come over to stay with us for a few days.

He landed this morning, and he made his way to my place by himself. Before he even warmed the sofa, he complained about being bored. Reluctantly, I cut short my SPA time and rushed back home. He seemed relief to see me, since the sister can now advise him where to go to keep him entertained. I have directed my kiddo brother to take MRT to visit the famous Pearl Tower, while I stayed home to manage the kids after school. Have planned to have my hubby take my kiddo brother out for dinner tonight.

Well.... that's only for today, hopefully we can keep my spirited brother amused for the next few days. *shrug*

It's National Day in China on 1st Oct, so everyone, including my hubby and kids, will be having 1 week vacation. Therefore, I’ll be probably busy for the coming week. Will get back to you after the Golden Week is over. Until then.... have a good week ahead! ;)

SPA Time

2006-09-28T14:16:00.000+08:00

Weather: Another Fine Sunny Day
Mood: Wonderful

This morning, I pick up the phone, make a few calls, and find myself a few candidates to interview for our AiYi. :D

When there is a will, there is a way. Anyway, I keep telling myself "so what, at most I shall fall back on myself to manage the house. It is not as if I cannot handle the household chores, but I guess I'm just used to paying others to do so." :P

Finally, I can relieve my mind enough to set an appointment to the SPA tomorrow.

It is due time for me to enjoy a pampering facial and a relaxing massage. ;)

Our Temporary Haven

2006-09-27T11:01:00.000+08:00

Weather: Sunny

Mood: Contented

We have finally settled in our new rented apartment. After a few days of hectic packing and tidying, everything is now in place. And after a few days of internet unavailability, I am pleased that the broadband is now ready for my access. :)

This new apartment is much smaller than our previous one, but it is a nice cozy home for our family of four. It is conveniently located next to the MRT station and the bus terminal. And nearby, there are several good restaurants, beauty salons and a mini mart that opens till late. The only disadvantage is the noise generated by the traffic and the crowd accessing the public transports. But since this apartment is only our temporary refuge, I guess I can live with the noise for a while. :P

Unfortunately, my search for a new aiyi is still unsuccessful. I have been pestering the domestic agency but the reply is always good AiYi is hard to come by. *sigh* Perhaps I might have to end up playing the part-time AiYi since my parents' Philipino maid is due to return to Singapore soon. *sigh sigh*

Maybe a little advertising here..... if you know of any reliable AiYi to recommend, please drop me a note. ;) Your kindness will be appreciated for life.

Next, I would have to wait patiently for the house we purchased to be ready. Hopefully, we can have the keys by early next year. I already have lots of renovation ideas and concepts pending to be experimented on our new house. I feel so excited...... :D

Notice of Absence

2006-09-19T14:46:00.000+08:00

If you don't see me blogging... hey... I'm not quitting, I'm just busy.

With house moving, interrupted internet access, and the coming Golden Week Vacation (China National Day) coming, I may not have time to blog.

Thus, don't give up on me if you don't see my writings. Just come back in a week or two.

Meanwhile, just leave a message if you have any. ;)

DHL .... Chinese style smile

2006-09-18T10:42:00.000+08:00

Weather: Sunny
Mood: Beautiful

I laughed when a friend told me that my blog is too serious. Hmm..... :D

Another friend, perhaps knowing that I worked for DHL before, sent me this joke which I think is very appropriate to share it here. Enjoy ;)

========== JOKE ==========

.
A family in the Southern Province of China, were puzzled when the coffin of their dead grandmother arrived from the States.

It was sent by one of the daughters.

The dead body was so tightly squeezed inside the coffin,with no space left in it!

When they opened the lid, they found a letter on top, which read as follows:

Dear Cousins,
.

I am sending Ahma body to you since it was her wish that she should be cremated in The compound of our ancestral home in Tung Shin. Sorry, I could not come along as all of my paid leaves are consumed.
You will find inside the coffin, under Ahma's , 12 cans of Yohmeitsu, 10 packets of Swiss chocolates and packets of Chinatown Lap Cheong. Please divide these among all of you.
On Ahma's feet you will find a new pair of Nike Air shoes (size 10) for Ah boy. Also, there are 2 pairs of shoes for Ah Mei's and Ah Lien's sons. Hope the sizes are correct.
Ahma is wearing 6 CK T-Shirts. The large size is for Ah Bak and the others are for my nephews. Just distribute them among yourselves.
The 2 new Armani Jeans that Ahma is wearing are for the boys.
The Rolex watch that Lee Ah Bai wanted is on Ahma's left wrist.
Kiasu Aunty Pei Pei, Ahma is wearing the Tiffany necklace, earrings and ring that you asked for. Please take them.
The 6 white Polo cotton socks that Ahma is wearing must be divided among my teenage cousins.
Let me know what else you need as Ah Kong is also not keeping well nowadays. I can send all required things when our Ah Kong also.....

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Well.... although this might only be a joke, but in reality, the Mainland Chinese are very innovative and resourceful. I must kuto to them as I can't help but admire them to always get things done in their unique ways.

Thanks for the Encouragement

2006-09-15T10:55:00.000+08:00

Weather: A Cool Windy Day, with a bit of Sun (nice)
Mood: Happy

I have yet sent invitations to my family and all my friends to view my blog. However, the few friends that I have invited for a preview of my blog, I am glad that they have sent me positive feedback. Two of them had even been encouraging enough to drop me comments. Thank you, Ed and Sassy! :D

Recently, I had terminated my Aiyi (i.e. the local name for domestic helper) because of her poor working attitude and dishonesty. Therefore just a while ago, when I was over the phone with my Tai Tai friend, I was grumbling to her about the difficulty of hiring reliable helper at home. :(
In a span of almost a year, I have changed 7 Aiyi and during every new hire, I always hoped that my next Aiyi would be my last. *sigh* Now I am crossing my fingers. :P

OK.... I am supposed to be happy today, so I shall drop the Aiyi topic for the time being. Maybe I would share on it later. ;)

These few days, I would be busy with my moving house, so I might not update my blog daily. But no worries, I would be back whenever I can find time, since I have so much to grumble about. LOL

Cheers for now. :)

Fake or Real?

2006-09-14T18:31:00.000+08:00

Weather: Cool and Drizzling
Mood: Amused

Couple of days ago, I was having lunch in a Japanese chain restaurant. Before long, I began to “eavesdrop” on a phone conversation of the gentleman sitting at next table. OK, before you conclude that I am a despicable one…. NO, I’M NOT. Why he caught my attention is because he was speaking in English (few locals speak English on casual occasions), and he was speaking so LOUD! At that moment, I wonder if he was talking so loud because he was showing off his language ability or he had poor hearing. *shrug*

Basically, the gentleman was discussing with the caller how to remit money from Malaysia to China. In his conversation, he mentioned that he was lunching with his wife, so I could not help checking his lunch partner out. She was a pretty girl who looked barely older than 25 years old… could be younger since she was putting on thick make-up. She was very slim, dressed fashionably, and never stop playing with her Nokia phone when she was not eating. Seemed like any typical modern-aged local by the manner she spoke.

The gentleman, on the other hand, was balding and possessed a beer belly, but looked tanned and stocky. My guess is he played a lot of golf. From his phone conversation, he mentioned he was a Malaysian, therefore he could not pick up the money, but his Chinese wife could do it for him.

Here is the funny part….. as soon as he ended his phone conversation, his supposedly wife asked for his phone number. Hmmm…… I could not help but wonder, why on earth would a wife not know the phone number of her husband??? :P

BTW, has anyone heard of a Merlion Club in Shanghai? It is a club that is made up of mostly expatriates from Singapore and Malaysia. I heard that one of the favorite get-togethers of the club members is to visit various massage parlors and night-clubs. In fact, my hubby’s friend was banned by his wife to join the club's golf games after he lied a few times that he was playing golf with the club members but instead, he was going for some sneaky fun with them. *LOL* But I have to confess, I am not sure if what I heard is true. :D

Debut Raving

2006-09-13T11:26:00.000+08:00

Weather: A Cool Cloudy Day
Mood: Annoyed

During the weekend, there are lots of broadcasting on the memorial of 9/11. Many have discussed changes in the world, and one of the significant changes would probably be the economic strengthening of China. Few even remarked that China would rise to become World’s First Power very soon. Is it good, or is it bad?

A few days ago, I had a phone conversation with a local Chinese friend, JM, who had migrated to States for decades. For about an hour or so, he was listening to me complained about the quality of life I am facing in Shanghai right now. Well… it is not the material quality, it is the social quality that I am referring to. I reckon that I might enjoy staying in China more if I happen to relocate here 20 years ago, since the population then held higher moral aptitude and awareness. Now, with the speedy economic advancement in the country, everyone just seems eager to get comfortable and rich. Loyalty and trustworthiness among locals have come to little existence.

With so many foreigners coming to China in hope to strike a pot of gold, I really cannot blame the locals for their growing greediness and selfishness. However, it is so sad that China has become such an unsettling place to live in.

I concluded the phone conversation by telling JM that I hope to see some improvements in the social aspect of China in ten or twenty years’ time. I shuddered when I was told by JM not to hold such high hope.

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